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‘Golden press:’ Teenage mental illness soars in wealthy US, UK families

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Mental health problems in children from wealthy US and UK families soar, new research reveals. The richer sectors of society are facing a crisis of eating disorders, drug abuse and self-harm, mostly due to “unrealistic” expectations pinned on kids.

Wealthy parents expect their off-springs to excel in all fields, including sports and music, as well as academically, American psychologists claim. This turns even activities once thought to be for fun or for leisure purposes into a stressful experience.

Studies show that on average, serious levels of depression, anxiety or somatic [physical] symptoms occur twice as often among these [wealthier] boys and girls compared to national rates,” writes the study’s author, Suniya Luthar, in the research published in Psychology Today and the Journal of Development and Psychopathology.

Scientists involved in the research found that children who were from households with an overall income of $160,000 were experiencing double the standard rates of anxiety and depression than their less wealthy counterparts.

Luthar explained that “some [pressure] comes from the families. There are high pressure traps that white-collar parents more than others, can fall into,” adding that the source of pressure can be from parents, teachers, coaches and peers – “the entire community.”

It is claimed that the incessant pressure being heaped on the nation’s youth led to increased feelings of vulnerability and children feel they cannot live up to the standards their parents set. Pressure can be applied from a young age with competition for school places and primary school tests beginning early on.

The evidence suggests that the privileged young are much more vulnerable than in previous generations. I have spent the last decade researching why this is the case. The evidence points to one cause: the pressure for high octane achievement,” Luthar told the Telegraph. Existing pressure is enhanced by the necessity in later years to secure a place at a leading university.

Researchers also discovered that drug abuse, eating disorders, neuroses and self-harm were rapidly rising among wealthy teens.

A never-ending cycle of exams and targets which causes the children to become “shattered” by a “fear of failure,” is to be blamed, according to Professor Tanya Byron, who treats children at a London clinic. She told Britain’s Telegraph that she was treating more and more young people for anorexia, self-harming and depression.

However, the highest rates of mental illness are still found in children from the very poorest families. Luthar has conducted previous research exploring the “draining, restrictive effects” of poverty. Income inequality has been found to cause stress, frustration and family disruption, filtering into further problems.

Powerful And Compelling Movie Drama Is An Oscar Candidate

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Jack Lyons Theatre & Film Critic
Jack Lyons Theatre & Film Critic

Man’s inhumanity to man has been documented many times both in war and in peace.    Also it’s been romanticized, glorified, as well as vilified, in real life and by Hollywood to a point that when a compelling, gut-wrenching film like “12 Years a Slave”, a movie so steeped in reality, comes along with its no-holds-barred, no sugar-coated approach in telling its incredible true story, well, it simply takes one’s breath away.

The film is not the tale of the Old South that your grandparents remember when viewing “Gone With the Wind”.  This is an unflinchingly brutal, cruel story told from the point of view of the thousands of black slaves who have endured two hundred and fifty years of living lives devoid of basic humanity and denied the dignity that all humans deserve. The story is set in the 1840’s.  Lincoln’s Thirteenth Amendment, The Emancipation Proclamation freeing all southern slaves, is still twenty years away.

Twelve-Years-a-Slave-Movie (3)Boldly and intelligently directed by Steve McQueen, the screenplay by John Ridley is filled with powerful, yet disturbing and vivid images of cruelty and brutality, which at times may cause the viewer to look away.  It’s that graphic.  So leave the kiddies at home.  But it’s a true story based on the 1853 autobiography by Solomon Northrup, a free born, black American, from upstate New York, who was abducted in Washington, D.C. in 1841 and sold into slavery in Louisiana.

Ridley’s riveting script about plantation life in the south for slaves is potent and compelling in its telling. It is also unrelenting in its many references where characters discuss and treat the slaves, not as humans, but as property to be traded or sold, or worse, to be treated as animals.  Many plantation owners in the south were laws unto themselves.  That shameful period of our history was not one of our finest hours.

Solomon Northrup , renamed by the Slave auctioneer (Paul Giamatti) as the “slave Platt”, is wonderfully portrayed by British actor Chiwetel Ejiofor.  Look for his name to be a strong contender for an Oscar nomination in 2014.  His performance is a finely nuanced star turn, imbued with restraint and dignity without ever losing sight of his goal: to be free and reunited with his family in the North.  Survival is his all-consuming passion.

twelve-years-a-slave-chiwetel-ejioforMichael Fassbender plays Edwin Epps the cruel, whiplash-happy, plantation owner.  His portrayal of Epps is a frightening portrait of man full of conflicting and out of control emotions.  He’s a Freudian delight on steroids.   Look for his name on the 2014 Oscar nomination list as well.

Lupita Nyong’o, one of the young slaves and the reluctant object of Epps’ unwanted sexual advances, delivers an absolutely stunning and poignant performance as Patsey.  When the camera moves in close to her lovely, but sad face, her soulful eyes tell the real and dehumanizing story of how the legacy of slavery, as an institution, will haunt millions of lives in the future.  Her name also, will be on the radar screen of the Oscar nomination committee

Adepero Oduye as Liza, delivers one of the film’s many heart-rending moments, weeping and constantly wailing over the whereabouts of her two young children. Her children, literally torn from her at the slave auction, are sold separately and sent to another plantation.  Every audience member who sees this film, especially mothers, will become immediately engaged.  It’s a very strong and compelling movie filled with many strong emotions.  Perhaps, Oduye is another candidate for an Oscar nomination?

The dashing English actor Benedict Cumberbatch, who seems to be all over movie screens these days, plays Baptist preacher Ward, a plantation owner with a conscience.

tillokm_1383078331_12yearsThe entire movie is filled with cameos by some of Hollywood’s finest character actors:  Paul Giamatti, as a slave auctioneer; Alfre Woodard as Mistress Shaw; wife of a white plantation owner; Paul Dano as uber-racist Tibeats; and Hollywood blockbuster star Brad Pitt, in a small but important pivotal role as the Canadian carpenter Bass.  Pitt’s cameo is one of the few voices of sanity in this powerful story of one man’s journey into and out of slavery.

Director McQueen and Cinematographer Sean Bobbitt, appear to be joined at the hip when it comes to two personal visions coming together as one (this is their third film together).  The disarming beauty of the scenery, with its Spanish moss-filled plantation scenes, and its gorgeous sun rises and sunsets belie the reality of the harsh conditions of American plantation life in the 18th and 19th centuries.

Action/exploitation movies like “Django Unchained” are targeted to appeal to a lowest common denominator.  McQueen and Ridley are trying to set the record straight as to how it really was for black slaves back then.  One often hears people saying how they yearn for the “good old days”.  Well, it wasn’t the good old days for everyone.

When the buzz of a “hot and important” film is being cast, even the stars come out and lobby for a part in a movie that will be Oscar-nominated heavy.  Everyone loves a winner, and “12 Years a Slave” is definitely a winner!  The film opens nationwide this week.

CSUSB Palm Desert Campus Receives $250,000

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Palm Desert, Calif., (November 5, 2013) – The H.N. and Frances C. Berger Foundation surprised a crowd of California State University, San Bernardino supporters Sunday night with the announcement of a new H.N. and Frances Berger Expendable Scholarship Fund for students enrolled at the CSUSB Palm Desert Campus.

A $250,000 fund will award five $5,000 scholarships annually over a ten-year period beginning in Fall 2014. Scholarships will be presented to Riverside County students attending California State University, San Bernardino Palm Desert Campus who are studying allied health, including nursing, nutrition, kinesiology, physical therapy and/or education. Scholarship recipients will be required to have a minimum 3.0 GPA and show financial need.

“The H.N. and Frances Berger Scholarship Fund is an exciting way for us to continue our partnership with California State University, San Bernardino Palm Desert Campus, which we have been supporting for more than a decade,” said Catharine Reed, Senior Program Officer of the H.N. and Frances C. Berger Foundation. “It’s important to us to provide more opportunities for our local students to attend our valley’s only four-year university.”

The Foundation has been an active participant in the CSUSB Palm Desert Campus Scholarship Dinner since its inception four years ago. This year, the Foundation underwrote the entire event, which allows all funds raised the night of the dinner to go directly to student scholarships. Sunday, at Bellatrix Restaurant at The Classic Club, supporters participated in a “Raise Your Paddle” live auction, which generated an additional $45,000 for the CSUSB Palm Desert Campus Scholarship Fund.

Entertainment at the event, dubbed a “Rat Pack Evening” was provided by Deana Martin, the very proud daughter of iconic entertainer, Dean Martin. She not only belted out familiar tunes, but also captivated the crowd of about 100 with stories about her father, “Uncles” Frank Sinatra and Sammy Davis, Jr. and other showbiz luminaries.

Attendees included Ron and Sherrie Auen, Dick and Jan Oliphant, Catharine Reed, Thomás Morales, President CSUSB, Evy Morales, Fred Jandt, Dean of CSUSB Palm Desert Campus, Harold Matzner, Jim Houston and Patricia Bosley, Helene Galen and Jamie Kabler, Mona and Ed Sher, Phil and Lee Hixon, Peggy Cravens, John and Sharon Welty, Ray and Rhonda Smith, Vince and Jodi Feragamo, John Campbell, Jack and Eleanora Jones, Frankie Randall, Melinda Read, Bill and Barbara Marx, Patrick Evans, along with local dignitaries and philanthropists.

The Palm Springs Follies “The Last Hurrah”

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Story and photos by Pat Krause
Story and photos by Pat Krause

The Palm Springs Follies is holding its final shows this season and it will end 23 years of entertainment in Palm Springs. The final shows are called “The Last Hurrah”. The Follies has been a part of the A list of things to see and do in the Valley. People come from all over just to see this show whose singers and dancers range from 56 to 84 years of age. The theater was filled to capacity on the opening show that starred Susan Anton.

Riff Markowitz brings funny to a new level as he brings the guests into his routine. No one in the front row is safe from his humor. Susan Anton starred 3 years ago and was delighted to come back for the finale of this famous show. The follies has been touted worldwide as all the members are seniors but one would never know that. They’re singing and dancing makes everyone believe they are much younger. This first edition is a Christmas show and there will be a much different
show after Christmas.

The costumes are flamboyant with lots of feathers and sequins. They remind you of the Ziegfield Follies days when costumes were so huge the dancers could barely walk in them. Men in tuxedos escort them to the stage where they tell of their experiences,careers and their AGE. Guests can meet the cast after the show in the lobby.

The finale is always a tribute to America. When Veterans were asked to stand to be recognized and applauded, nearly 1 fourth of the theater stood up. Nearly everyone in the theatre held their hand over their heart and sang along with God Bless America. The older generations are so proud of our country and get so emotional when our flag is flown. They have seen many wars, lost friends and family in combat and have had to struggle thru the hard times our country has seen.

“The Center Stage”

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Story and photos by Pat Krause
Story and photos by Pat Krause

The Center that serves the Deserts LGBT Community held a gala “The Center Stage” concert at the Palm Springs Convention Center on October 30th. The benefit concert was headlined by Frenchie Davis a Broadway star and TV’s The VOICE finalist. Hundreds of guests filled the lobby of the Convention Center where a huge silent auction was held during the cocktail hour.

The event honored some special people from the Desert. Willie Rhine and his partner Albert Gonzales were honored as Community Volunteers of the Year. Both men have been have had a huge impact in working with so many charities in the Valley. The other honoree was Martin Massiello as the Humanitarian of the Year. He is the Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer of the Eisenhower Medical Center. Massiello has been a supporter of the Center and made many programs accessible to all the members of the Center.

Comedian Alec Mapa hosted the gala and had the audience laughing at his many jokes and comments. He introduced the nights entertainer, SingerFrenchie Davis. What a voice this lady has. She said she just loves to sing and the audience showed their appreciation with loud applauses
after each song. The event was held to raise money for the Center to help them keep the over 40 programs a month, weekly food bank and a lot
of social events that they provide to the community.

Halloween Party at the Houston’s

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Story and photos by Pat Krause
Story and photos by Pat Krause

Jim Houston held his annual invitation only Halloween Party again this year on Oct. 31st. It has been a very anticipated event as guests go all out with extravagant costumes. Creativity is key to getting just the right costume for this event. Each person brings their own personality to the forefront. Some costumes were hilarious and others were so far out that people didn’t know who they were. Colorful wigs and masks for some and others work fun makeup to hide their faces.

Pirates, queens, cowboys and indians, walking dead, witches and warlocks,fairy tale characters, robots, comic book characters and much more were seen all over the grounds. The party was held in a huge white tent on the grounds of the Houston Estate. Halloween decorations were all over and waiters and waitresses wore large foam alien type hats. This is such a fun party for everyone attending. Hundreds of guests filled the area. Foods were served at the back of the tent with foods on both sides of an aisle.

Foods included sandwiches, Mexican and oriental foods and beverages were free at the bars around the area. Wines were served as you entered and appetizers were served everywhere. The band was also in costume with faces painted like the walking dead.

Popcorn was always a favorite at the party. There were no large tubs of different kinds of popcorn but Jim Houston did not forget. Each guest left with a bag of popcorn to take home to eat. Nothing is ever overlooked at a Houston Party thanks to party planner Shari Kelley. There was valet parking and halloween decorations adorned the outside and the entry way as guests entered to make for a spooky Halloween atmosphere.